I often find myself wondering what goes through peoples heads when it comes to love sometimes... Men in particular. Women as more of an afterthought. We all say we want the dynamic and fulfilling relationship but don't have a damn clue what to do with them once they have have it in front of them.

Now I'm not talking about taking care of your business in the bedroom. That goes without saying. I don't know many people who would be willing to stay in a monogamous relationship where they are not satisfied physically (at the very least), who would be willing to keep the relationship monogomous if at all.

What I'm talking about are those things that NURTURE a relationship from infancy far into maturity. Why is it WE are quick to pull out the stops to win someone's heart & affections... But fall short on the followthrough.

So Tell Me...

WHAT QUALITIES DID YOUR MATE EXPRESS IN THE BEGINNING OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU WISH THEY WOULD RESUME?

WHAT HABITS HAVE YOU NOTICED IN YOUR MATE THAT YOU HAD NO CLUE WERE THERE IN THE BEGINNING?